Nothing In Life Has Any Meaning Besides The Meaning We Give It !

Hi Zahir!

Nothing in life has any meaning besides the meaning we give it.

How do we create meaning? In many cases we are programmed by our culture and the people around us. The truth is that all meaning is subjective. Some of us are taught that having designer clothes, a perfect body and having a lot of money is the true meaning of success. In other cultures having a loin cloth, a lip plate, long earlobes and living off the land is the true meaning of success.

Some of us are taught that death is sadness and others believe it is joyful because we get rid of our warn-out bodies so our spirit can move on and have more fun!

Imagine you are in the ocean and you are a poor swimmer. Behind you is a huge wave. Now what do you think? Do you think what an exciting and fun wave? No! You're scared as hell. Now imagine you are an experienced surfer and the same wave comes up behind you.
You say, "Cool. Hang ten. What a wave dude". Did the wave change?
Obviously it was just the meaning you gave to it.

If nothing in life has any meaning besides what you give to it then your experiences in life have nothing to do with what is happening in your life, but everything to do with the meaning you attach it to.

Understanding that you can choose the meaning to the events in your life gives you a tremendous power to change the quality of your experiences, the quality of your results and the quality of your life.

If you feel angry or upset ask yourself, "What does my reaction to this say about me?" In other words, what do I have to believe to experience the emotions I am experiencing right now in this situation? In short, you define your own experiences. You create your own meaning.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.

Truly Caring for Your Success!

Dr. Robert Anthony

An Email To Me About People Act "Powerless" !!!

Hi Zahiruddin!

Why do we resist doing what we can in this moment? Because we might fail. If you get right down to the core of it, you will see that people act powerless because it's far easier to blame circumstances than go ahead and do it anyway, and maybe look really stupid in the process. So we give our power away to others. It's like we're saying, "No, please, YOU take my power. This way I can blame YOU if things don't work out".

Hope attempts to prove we're powerless.

We say things like...

-I am not the one in charge here, so there is really nothing I can do.

-I believe my fate is in God's hands.

-They won't let me...(government, rich people, or anyone else who appears to have more power)

-What is the use of trying? The odds are clearly stacked against me.

These are nothing more than assumptions. Assumptions are characterized by the habit of taking for granted that something is true when it is not. Questions you must ask are, "Is my assumption true or false? What proof or evidence do I have about my assumption? "

What's more stupid than a stupid question? The answer is an incorrect assumption.

Think of this in terms of your return on investment. In business we focus heavily on the ROI (return on investment), but we forget to use that same concept throughout the rest of our lives.
When we fail to do what we want because of an assumption, we are forgetting about the concept of ROI. What would be the ROI for doing it anyway, even if someone somewhere holds the assumption that it is impossible? If all any of us ever did was follow our assumptions, we would still be afraid of falling off the edge of the earth.

Is it wrong to hope or have expectations? Absolutely not. However, the tipping point where hope turns into defeat is when hope keeps us from doing what we can do in the moment.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.

Truly Caring for Your Success!

Dr. Robert Anthony

How To Change Reality !!!!

This a cool article about reality. Check it out.

The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with "what is". When the mind is perfectly clear, "what is" is what we accept in this moment.

If you want your reality to be different than "what is" then you might as well try to teach your cat to bark. You can try and try and in the end the cat will look up at you and say "Meow". Wanting your reality to be different than what it is in this moment, is just as stupid. You can spend the rest of your life trying to teach your cat to bark, but you will never succeed.

And yet if you pay attention, you'll notice that you think thoughts like this dozens of times every day. People should be... My neighbors should be... My husband should... My wife should... I should...

These thoughts are ways of wanting reality to be different than it is. Here is my point - all the stress you feel in your life at this moment is caused by arguing with "what is".

People say to me, "But if I simply accept reality then I will become passive and nothing will change. I answer them with this question. Which of these statements makes more sense? "I wish I hadn't lost all that money." or "What can I do now to create more income?"

Accepting "what is" doesn't mean you condone or approve of the way things are, it just means you give up all the resistance and inner struggle by wishing it were different. No one wants to lose their money, have their children get sick or be in a car accident.

However, when these things happen it can it be helpful not to mentally argue with them. We know better than to do that, yet we do it because it is a HABITUAL PATTERN.

I am a lover of "what is", not because it is the "right" thing to do, but because it hurts when I argue with reality, and when I do, I AWLAYS lose.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.

Truly Caring for Your Success!

Dr. Robert Anthony

We Have Forgotten WHO WE ARE !

Hi Zahiruddin!

Why are so many of us struggling? Because we have forgotten WHO WE ARE.

Who we are is our True and Authentic Self that is always connected and one with Source Energy. On the other hand, who we THINK we are is how we show up in life. If we are struggling we will never be who we are. Let that sink in for a moment.

Who we THINK we are comes from listening to other people rather than listening to ourselves. For a large portion of my life I believed what others told me to believe. I learned early that what other people think of me is more important that what I think of myself. At least this is what I thought.

Living in the Flow and living in abundance is about focusing on WHO YOU ARE and what you can do in this moment. It is not about who you are not, what you cannot do, and what you don't have.

WHO YOU ARE is everything. It is the ONLY thing that really matters because everything hinges on your ability to be yourself and to do that you must become intimately aware of the false beliefs you have about yourself and about the way life works.

When you live in the Flow and in Alignment with Source Energy you know you already have what you need. People who live in the Flow and in Alignment are more than just positive thinkers - they are attraction in action.

They accept life is not always easy and doesn't always follow a straight and convenient path. They let life unfold through them instead of putting their life into a box of expectations.

Your greatness is not dependent upon anything you accomplish. You don't need to prove anything to anyone - even yourself. I am here to tell you one thing - you and everyone that comes in contact with you are already great. To live your greatness, you must know WHO YOU ARE and you must do what you can do in THIS MOMENT. Nothing else is required.

Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.

Truly Caring for Your Success!

Dr. Robert Anthony

Rules To Live By .....Women You Want ...

I get this from my wife ... so I just share it with everyone ... interesting about the woman you want ....

It Is About Me, My Life And My Next Life (My Dead)

Who am I ? Who am I really ? What am I ? What am I really ? This search will never ends until you let go "Your Mind". Your mind need a justification to exist. IT describe who you are. IT describe what you are and do all sort of things to make sure IT exist.

Your Mind learn from the past, it create FEAR of the future, it create illusion of the reality, it mumbles in your head, it control your views, it manage your eyes, ears and smells, it is all over you and IT want to become YOU.

This is a BATTLE inside and this battle will never ends until you DIE. This "MIND" works cleverly and joined with other "MIND's" and create what we called "MIND EFFECT" or "MIND SYNDROME". This "MIND's" rules the earth and the world.

All the above is my "MIND" perception and projection. Your "MIND" really can amazed you of what IT can do to you.

Do you ever asked ? why some car is right hand drive and some is left hand drive ? why there is 220v and 110v current voltage ? All this question is from your MIND and it can create million of question that will never ends.

Remember this ! There is a time that your MIND is at REST - during the sleep. That is the time that you hardly remember what you do and what people can do to you. During this time where are you? How come you have FAITH that you going to wake up tomorrow ? There is no guarantee.

I always asked myself, where to ? why I am such in hurry doing everything ? what I am missing in this life ? why I am worry about things that not happened yet ? why I have all this fears and worry ? Have I NOT TRUSTED GOD ?

Hey we cannot see GOD. GOD never help us when we have no MONEY. GOD never work 9 to 5 every day. GOD never have to send children to school. GOD never have to worry about paying bills.

See who is talking about GOD. That is my mind talking about GOD. My mind compares. My mind judge. My mind analyze. And the result my MIND make my BELIEF.

I need to come out and win this battle over my mind. It is already 40 years and I am still strangling with this battle. I am sorry God. Please forgive me. Please guide me and teach me. Please bless me. Thank you. I love you.

Zahiruddin

p/s: This is my mind speaking !

GOD: It Is All There Is !!!

Good day and thank to you everyone. It is 2010 already and I think this is my first post on this blog. My journey and my quest of life is still in progress. So many things that I experienced and felt through this few years. Many challenges, many difficulties, many setbacks and many hurdles.

I always wonders when will I be OUT of THIS MESS. I am very very sorry GOD. Please forgive me GOD. I always forgot and always look THINGS - ONE SIDED ONLY. I never realized that this what - I CALL A MESS is a GREAT BLESSING for me. What a FOOL I am.

Thank you God for your guidance. Thank you God for everything. You know what is best for me than my ego self. I learn many GREAT things ... - why should I worry when I have YOU (GOD) ? Why should I fear when YOU are there to help? why should I afraid when YOU are my creator?

I was disguised by my EGO self. My EGO self created the state of fear, worry, the unbeliever, and all the negativity about believing you GOD. Deep inside my heart I know that YOU are by my side and YOU always help me in all and any situation.

Everytime I am in needs you help me even though I had committed a lot of sin. YOU help with YOUR love and kindness. Thank you GOD. Please guide me through out my life in this temporary world. I need your blessing in everyway in my life.

Thank you. I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you.

Best Regards,
Zahiruddin

A Journey To Understand !!!

Thank you everyone. It has been a while I do not write in this blog. I am so tight up with my daily task and things that lead me to "NO WHERE". I am bluffing when I said that. Everything you do. No matter what. It will lead you "SOME WHERE".

Every action and reaction have it cause. And everything work not by "ACCIDENT". All is well planned by the GREATEST PLANNER of all time. Enjoy the moment that you are going through. Be present with the moment. Observe and see without judgement. Make the best out of it.

You are moving from one time to another time in every second. What count is the the time that you are AT NOW. The past is PAST. And the future is the FUTURE. Don't live your NOW with the memory of the PAST. And don't live your NOW with the image of the FUTURE. Live your NOW with the present.

Problem is a state of mind that linger around your EGO. It feeds your EGO with resentment, worry, fear, negativity in order to create your IDENTITY. Are you judge by your PAST experience ? Who are you ? Are you your EGO self?

I am an engineer. I am a doctor. I am a salesman. I have a huge house. I have coll cars. I have great job and so on. Is that who you are ?

The journey of life is about IDENTIFYING who you are? Are you "YOU" or are you your "EGO"?. And this battle of power goes on every seconds in our life.

Thank you God for your guidance. I need you most and please forgive me. I love you.

Zahiruddin

p/s: On the journey ...

A Journey Toward More Meaningful Life!

It is been a while for me to write in this blog. Many things had happened to me for the past few months. So many things actually. All happened for the better of my own self.

All is about me and how I look on the world. What FILTER that I used to view the world. Am I USING a GREEN filter? If I used a green filter I will see all green even they give me a WHITE paper. This is what I am facing in my life. I am having too many filters inside myself. Whether I purposely installed it or get it unconciously. This is what happened. So many INVADER in the MIND and taking over our CONTROL.

How to move on in my LIFE the BEST way? Or do you really KNOW what is BEST for YOU? Actually NOBODY KNOW. Only GOD know what is BEST for you. So HOW to MOVE on THEN?

I learn THIS 4 Tools that is very SIMPLE and Honestly MOST of it KNOW it already. The problem is we DO NOT PRACTICE IT in our daily LIFE. Simple but not that so simple to implement it in our daily life.

The 4 TOOLS:

1) Truthful - the meaning of word truth extends from honesty, good faith and sincerity in general. You need to be truthful in your - intention, conversation and actuon : All these must be synchronized. Be TRUTHFUL to yourself first.

2) Trustworthy - a moral value considered to be a virtue. A trustworthy person is someone in whom we can place our trust and rest assured that the trust will not be betrayed.

3) Sharing - sharing thougths and feelings. Unselfishly willing to share with others. Sahring the knowledge.

4) Brilliant - Having impressive intelligence, the ability or power to create and being or producing something like nothing done or created before.

For a start I am doing this for MYSELF. I am instilling TRUTHFUL, TRUSTWORTHY, SHARING and BRILLIANT in myslef and moving on my daily based on this tools. I hope others too can start doing what I am doing. All of these is for the BETTER or ourself and others.

If you are having a problem now. That is the BEST for you NOW. Be grateful and remember ONLY GOD know what is best.

Zahiruddin